Hi, Jan,

Everyone has reasons for missing deadlines and not keeping a promise when life takes a turn. Accountability seems to be an old-fashioned concept. The fine art of holding someone to his word should be part of our interactions. Confrontation for dropping a commitment does not have to damage a relationship. Holding each other to high standards improves business for everyone – customer and provider.

Thank you for stopping by.
— Mialei

On saying that it does drive me crazy when people don’t do as they say they will and offer no explaination.

Hi, Joy,

I believe that part of the challenge in always keeping my word is learning to say “no” in all the right places. Overcommitting myself because I want to be popular will come back to bite me. I must decide what I will do and then follow through.

Thanks for your comment.
— Mialei

This is such a problem for me…. my life would be so much easier if people would only do what they say they’ll do!

I can’t tell you the number of hours I waste in my business waiting for clients and suppliers to let me have something they know I need.

And that’s before we get onto my personal life, which is also littered with broken promises.

I was brought up in a family business and our word was our bond, no matter at what personal expense.

Have a great week, Joy

Hi, Mr. Ed,

I have decided that some friends need the same treatment. Why do people want to have friends, but they do not want to BE a friend? If I find the answer, I am going to write a book and retire in total luxury!

Thanks for visiting!
— Mialei

“NO”… is the answer you’re begging for. And, rightly so. The 1st time a business person breaks their promise, they’re dead to me.

There’s no shame with turning down business. A concept some sub-contractors have trouble with early on.

Good post.
Edward